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After we broke up, I moved awaybut have recently moved back home. My ex and I have started chatting over social media and we ended up on a group night out together thanks to some mutual acquaintances.
First of all, kudos on making the conscious decision to figure out your motivations before acting. The good news is that, for some people, sex with an ex can be a positive experience, and a far cry from the emotional turmoil-fuelled disaster that many handwringing and melodramatic sitcom storylines would have you believe. Now — and please note that I said for some people, not all people — as with most good news, there are caveats. A recent study by Stephanie Spielmann of Wayne State University and published in the Archives of Sexual Behaviour showed that most people who had sex with an ex after a breakup did not feel distressed or depressed, nor did it hinder their recovery from the relationship.
As it explored the feelings of those who had slept with an ex, it inherently focuses on people who did not write off sex with an ex as in inconceivable or truly terrible idea not worthy of exploring. So of course the result are going to skew more positive than if a random selection of exes had ignored their gut instincts and slept together in the name of science.
Which means we have to look at your situation, the reasons you want to have sex with your ex, and the possible risks. However, if the break-up was fairly mutual, decided by external factors such as you moving away, or just ended with a decent amount of shared respect for each other, you may well be in luck. But again, I have to rain on your parade here.
But you had a serious relationship with this person. Those are strings, Pinocchio. As you also seem to have a shared social life in some capacity, the potential for emotional complications is much higher, as you could see each other more and the fall-out from any complications could be greater. Given that you could be focusing your energy on finding a new person to have some causal fun with, someone who could offer a genuinely no-strings-attached situation, I have to wonder if you are being completely honest with yourselfand subconsciously do have a desire to rekindle something with your ex - out of desire, nostalgia, laziness, or maybe even some lingering resentment, in that you know this situation could end up hurting her in some way.
Sex with an ex can be good. Being a good, thoughtful, considerate and drama-free ex? Even better. Focus on that. If you have a problem or query you would like her to answer, you can submit it anonymously at irishtimes.
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