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Log in. I'm Skeptical. Jump to Latest Follow. Quick Survey - How do you Ex wife wants to get back together our Forum Software? Let us know in a 30 second survey. Status Not open for further replies. ed May 19, My ex and I were married 23 years.
In year 22 of our marriage she had a six-month long sexual affair with an old boyfriend from her college days. I knew nothing about the affair until one of our two sons, the older boy, told me what was going on. I hired a private eye and he tracked my wife and her old boyfriend to his apartment about twenty-five miles from the town where we live. She had gone out that day on the pretext of spending the day shopping, when in reality she was spending the day with him.
The P. She admitted to the affair and I immediately moved out and went to live with my elderly dad across town. I filed for divorce that same week. She continued on with her affair with the boyfriend. After our divorce was final a year or so later she and him got married. It was a great big wedding, with all our old friends attending, and even my sons went.
I of course felt deeply insulted and betrayed by this, as I felt my sons and friends should have supported me. Instead they supported my cheating ex. I cut off all contact with these old friends, and my relationship with my two boys has been strained from that point onwards. I used to be very close to my boys but I guess they felt closer to their mom.
I guess it was not the happy marriage she was hoping for, because he left her last year and their divorce Ex wife wants to get back together be final sometime this month. He also left her with a huge pile of debt. Her new husband moved in with her. Well guess who has been calling me out of the blue lately? You guessed it. My ex-wife now all of a sudden has warm glowing memories of our marriage. She called me yesterday and asked me how I was doing.
Then she proceeded to tell me that she misses me and wants us to start dating again. I told her that was funny, since this was the first time in five years she had called me or even deigned to talk to me. I also pointed out that she had also done a good job of vilifying me to everyone we knew, telling everyone in her family and all our acquaintances what a tyrant and horrible husband I had been to her.
Anyways, she wants to get together this coming weekend for dinner. I am single, have been dating and I have been enjoying my life as a bachelor. So I guess my question is, should I meet with her to hear what she has to say? I know that her money problems are at the heart of her sudden re-interest in me. I guess I have a sort of morbid curiosity about what she is going to say.
There are a lot of things I would like to say to her and none of them very nice. I just wonder if meeting with her is a good idea. ed Jan 20, Let me go first. I wouldn't piss on her if she was on fire. Tell her to fvck herself. Plan A ruined her and dumped her, so now she wants to go with plan B. Don't be plan B. I hope this helps. ed Feb 8, I would not meet up with her. She threw you and the marriage away for another man.
He hosed her financially and now all of a sudden she has the warm and fuzzies for you? Oh please. She's definitely looking for you to bail her out. I would flat out tell her "no". One simple word and Ex wife wants to get back together take any more of her calls. You don't owe her a thing.
Posted via Mobile Device. ed Mar 17, I wouldn't give her the time of day. Let her find some other schmuck to pay her bills. ed Mar 5, TheBaxter said:. Thound said:. Your avatar brings back old memories. ed Jun 6, I would only add one thing to saying "No! Make sure she hears you laughing as you state it.
You should never, ever get involved with her again. ed Jan 21, How to Say No in Various Languages. ed Oct 17, ed Feb 6, She is one of those women that give all women a bad name. Always looking for the next person to support her.
For shame! Tell her you will do her a major favor and give her a bucket to save her tears in so she can remember why she is in this situation in the first place. You have a few ladies giving you attention right now, why throw that away for someone who cheated on you and talked down about you?
You should be happy to be rid of her. The karma bus came back and bit her right in the ss. Thank you all for the replies.
As for why my boys stuck with their mother I will never know for sure. I guess they felt her being attacked by the town gossips and so they had a need to protect her? I don't know. I guess I should say they never sided with her. My older son was furious with her when he found out about her affair. He did not speak to her for a few months.
I guess they both just realised it was going to happen no matter how they felt so they just went along with it. I was gone away working the oil fields when they were young and they were very close to their mom. Burt once they were in high school they spent most of their free time with me, hunting and fishing and dirt biking and such.
I was deeply hurt when they attended the wedding, but I guess they wanted to keep the piece with their mom. But when the going gets tight and they need help, guess who they come to? Aspydad said:. Thound, I can tell you really had to put some series thought into this one!
I have three women who I date. One of them is an old ex-friend of my wife's who hates her and couldn't wait to jump in bed with me after the divorce. One gal is an old friend of mine who lives in another town, and the third one is a local female cop. I'm getting more sex than I ever did as a teenager and I'm enjoying life. Another reason I don't want to get back together with my ex is because she gained a ton of weight after her husband left her.Ex wife wants to get back together
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