Added: Kathelyn Roundtree - Date: 09.09.2021 21:13 - Views: 23017 - Clicks: 7479
June 3, Respect is about the freedom to be yourself and to be loved for who you are. However — unfortunately — not all relationships have a healthy level of mutual respect.
Notice it. Identify it. Address it — talk things through. Love is not full love without the respect there. And you deserve that full, unconditional love, where someone brings out the best in you, whilst appreciating everything that you are. We can all make mistakes, start acting in ways that become a little toxic at times — especially when other things are going on in our life and mind.
But this behaviour, it should be a one off or infrequent. But let me give you a couple of examples…. You are who you are, faults and all. No-one is perfect, and no-one will necessarily like every single thing about a person.
Like we said at the start — when respect is there, you can be fully yourself. You find yourself holding back, treading on eggshells, keeping things in. The day is important to you. He says okay, but then he goes back on it.
He comes back late, is grouchy the next day and shrugs it off. And he may even turn it on you!
Or perhaps he has a habit of lying. You set boundaries. You say it has to stop.
Let me give you one more example on the boundaries front. You need space and time to yourself. You try to express this to him, you want him to understand because you know it will benefit your relationship. He wants to talk it out and so he demand that you talk it out.
You make plans. He lets you down. Important ones too.
Does he involve you? Does he discuss things with you? Are you a key player in important decisions? I repeat: if insecurities are there from either side, this is going to affect it. There can also be an element of hate there. If your trust issues come from any of those reasons, it links back to his behaviour and this kind of behaviour shows… you guessed it, a lack of respect.
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